Question for military wives. My husband is currently trying to join the AF. We have known each other and been?

married for a little over 2 yrs. We also have a 1 yr. old. He is looking for a career change and I am currently a sopre in nursing school. He now has his mind set that he is committed to this. This means that we will be apart for two yrs. since I have to finish my BSN. I would have considered transferring to be nearby but there is no certainty what will happen being moved around. Plus I have a scholarship. Also, since clinicals will begin soon with 12 hr shifts and by hb having to possibly pay for 2 places, daycare won't be an option. I know NO ONE in the town we live in or near so he wants to send my baby to his g-parents hours away during my entire semester. I have no idea what to do! I know nothing is for sure until after meps(which may happen this week)but I've been stressing and losing weight and appetite. I don't want to be alone here while in school..I'd be ok if I could see my hb every couple months but he says that will likely not happen. Any advise how to deal?